MRS (MEMBER OF A RESPONSIBLE SOCIETY )

 When a young lady gets married,  her title changes from "Miss " to "Mrs" 

MRS  is an acronym to Member of  a Responsible Society .

M stands for  Member

R stands for  Responsible

S stands for Society. 

A married woman is seen as a member of a responsible society  (MRS).

 As a married woman,  there are certain things you do when you were single that you must stop doing , and there are certain things you don't do when you were single that you must start doing. 

Below are some of the  things :

* YOU MUST STOP STAYING LATE OUTSIDE YOUR HOME: This shouldn't  be found among  married women, I know when you were  single , you will have to hang out with friends till anytime you like. But that must stop when you are married in order  to be a member of a responsible society. 

* YOU MUST STOP ANSWERING UNNECESSARY CALLS FROM FRIENDS AT NIGHT :  Unnecessary calls can be calls where you  spend one hour gossiping   one person or another,  or when a male friend calls and both of you will keep saying unnecessary things even in the presence of your husband. 

It doesn't portray you as a member of a responsible society. 

* YOU MUST LIMIT YOUR VISITING OF  BOTH MALE  AND FEMALE FRIENDS :  It doesn't matter what you discus,  a responsible woman must  learn how to  stay in her house  not going   from  town to town, vilage to village, city to city, state to state and if possible country  to country visiting every Tom, Dick and Harry.

Except you are doing the visiting with your husband. 

* YOU MUST SEE YOUR HUSBAND AS YOUR BEST FRIEND : None of your friends whether male or female  should take the place of your husband in your life.

He is and should always be your best friend,  whatever you tell that your so called best friend should be told to your husband. 

* YOU MUST ALWAYS BE DECENT IN YOUR DRESSING : Being a  married woman should afford you the opportunity to  discard those short skirts, gowns and exposed blouses. 

Even Change your wardrobe if you can, buy good and decent clothes that will portray you as a married member of a responsible society. 

* YOU MUST PREPARE YOUR HUSBAND'S MEAL BY YOURSELF: When preparing for marriage you should have known how to cook ,  every food your husband eat should be cooked by you not some sort of housemaids or always depending  on  fast food.

Let me tell you this,  men enjoy food cooked by their wives than any other person,  it grows the love they have for their wives. 

A member of a responsible society must cook for her husband. 

* YOU MUST BE SUBMISSIVE TO YOUR HUSBAND :

Remember Ephesians 5 : 22.

Whether you are older,  richer, taller, more educated   and whatever you can ever think of,  than your husband.

It is and will always be your duty to be submissive to him. 

He is the head and  will always be the head. 

* YOU MUST ALWAYS SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR HUSBAND  : This means limiting the time you spend with friends and other things. 

Stay with your husband ,  talk with him, joke with him, play  with him and  laugh with him.

He is your husband,  don't run away from him.

It's not only when you  want to have sex that you both come together and after sex , " to your tent oh Israel.

Spending quality time with ones husband helps them know each other better and it deepens their love for each other .

* YOU MUST NOT  DENY YOUR HUSBAND HIS CONJUGAL RIGHTS : This is very important in every marriage, do not give unnecessary excuse in order not to have sex with your husbands. 

70 percent of marriages that are breaking  this days are as a result of infidelity which sometimes comes because the woman is denying her husband sex.

Fellow ladies,  When the above listed are put into practice then you are sure to be a bona-fide member of a responsible society.  (MRS)

A better marriage produces good children and a better society.