SEE WHY YOU NEED TO UNDERSTAND AND TOLERATE WOMEN

 Women are the most fragile among the two sexes on earth,  they need to be understood  and tolerated ,  they need to be cared for.

  Some men fail in this aspect that is why they find it difficult to build and maintain a good relationship. 

Men can fix some things in their relationships when they tolerate their women. 

The lady's mind , I can say can not be known by just spending some time with her. 

It can take a life time to know a woman 

You can't just date for 6 months or one year and assumed to have known her, then when she does something unimaginable you will say ,  "I thought I have known you? "

Some men will say, "let's date for  5 years so we can know each other very well ".

My dear it doesn't work that way,  there are  more to that.

Even as you are married to her , you are still knowing her.

So, it takes a matured , understanding ,  tolerating , loving and  caring man to live with a woman.

If you are not tolerating, then don't think of marrying a woman.

There are more to tolerate in marriages than in relationships.

The following are the reasons why  women should be  understood and tolerated. 

*THEY ALWAYS PASS THROUGH DIFFERENT STAGES IN LIFE: Women pass through different stages that puts them into so much discomfort  which makes them act weird. 

They have menstrual pains,  which can make them get angry with you when they are not supposed to be. 

During ovulation period ,  they have pains too and there is high sex drive,  that they can even  stab  the man if he refuses to  have sex with them .

When they are pregnant, they have lots of changes in attitudes at every point in time and it differs in women.

We can call all these "mood swing", it's normal with women and that is why men should be able to understand and tolerate them in every stage they are .

Men should care for them , make them feel loved , encourage them and support them because it's not easy for them whenever they are in one stage or another. 

Many of them regrets some actions they take while in these stages.

Some women can even go to the extent of slapping or biting their men especially when in labour, but they can't help it. 

That is why all cares, understanding and tolerance should be needed from the men.

* MOST WOMEN ARE PERFECTIONISTS: Sometimes it's a family trait.

 This means that they find it difficult to be impressed with what people especially their men do , they always want things to be perfectly done.

For example,  a man buys a purple dress for his wife ,  because that is her favourite colour. 

Then she looks at it and say " this is not the right colour,  it should be a different shade of purple " on a normal note,  purple colour is still purple but she wants a perfect purple.

Her husband out of fury may decide to take the dress back  to where he bought it or even give it out to a beggar on the road, since the wife doesn't need it.

Men should know that it is common among women , they want everything to be done perfectly, even when they know that nobody is perfect, it is not because she is not appreciative but it's just her,  she can't help it. 

When this is found in a woman ,while dating  her ,  it doesn't make her a bad person, it's a trait in her , if you truly love  her, you should go ahead and get married to her , your love for her should make you accommodate and tolerate her imperfectionism. 

*THEY DON'T MEAN HALF OF WHATEVER THEY SAY: I know this will sound like a surprise to you , but it is true, I,  the writer of this piece is an example.

Most women just talk with their mouths and that is all, it doesn't mean you should take them for granted but don't always take whatever they say to heart.

You can be having some argument with a a woman and she will be saying a lot of things 

She will leave your house for you, she will do this and that,  but she will end up doing none of all she threatened to do.

This shows that they don't mean half of whatever they say.

They just say them for saying sake.

But don't hurt a woman because she doesn't mean most of the things she says.

When you keep hurting her , she may end up doing even more than what she says.

These are the some of the reasons why women should be tolerated ,  

When she does any of the above-mentioned, men should out of love, tolerate and love her more in order to have a better relationship or marriage.