HOW THE SOCIAL MEDIA CAN BE A BARRIER TO MARITAL SETTLEMENT

   BY MR. DANIEL EKEJIOFOR

  

  It is true that  some persons who are happily married today met themselves on social media. 

But the wrong use of the social media is also the reason why some ladies are still single, despite so many proposals.

Below are some of the negative effects of the social media in the lives of ladies.


INDECENCY : 

This is a problem that has kept a lot of ladies single.

They expose every parts of their body on social media,  parts of their body that are meant to be covered. 

Despite being aware that most of the videos or pictures that are shared on social media can never be deleted or removed ,  since some of their contacts will likely share it to their public pages.


IRRESPONSIBLE MEN: 

Every woman wants to end up marrying a responsible  or God fearing man and vice versa.

But in this case,  being irresponsible on social media can only attract irresponsible men to them.

No decent man will want to marry an indecent lady.


EXCESS TIME ON SOCIAL MEDIA :

A lot of time that is meant to be spent doing important things and adding value to one's life , is being spent on social media by a lot of ladies and vice versa.

This makes it difficult for ladies to get responsible husbands, because no sensible man with vision will be ready to marry a lazy or jobless woman in this modern days.


FAKE LIVES ON SOCIAL MEDIA :

There are lots of fake lives on social media especially on the part of the ladies.

They claim to be who they are not. 

And this is the reason why  some ladies are still single because any sensible man that ends up  marrying them may  end up divorcing them within a short period in the marriage. 

And also end up causing himself lots of heartbreaks and problems from different angles. 

Because he believed in whatever he saw and didn't carry out enough investigations  before deciding on getting married to the lady he saw  on social media. 

These are the reasons why the social media can be a barrier to marital settlement .

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