PART TWO OF FACTORS THAT TENDS TO AFFECT RELATIONSHIPS

LIFE OF PRETENCE ; Life of Pretence is the greatest canker worm that has eaten deep into the fabric of lots of relationships, especially on the part of the women, it takes a matured and observant mind to differentiate between a real life and a life of pretence. Being oneself will do a person more good than harm. a lot of women feel that pretending to be who they are not will guarantee a happy relationship and marriage , Some women might have had children before meeting a man but will pretend to have had non. some are non virgins but will pretend to be virgins, some are from poor homes but will pretend to be from rich homes. Same thing goes with the men , some will pretend to be rich and working in an oil company but they are road side mechanics. This can only Mar a relationship. The earlier men and women drop the life of pretence, the better for everyone. COMPARING YOUR PARTNER WITH OTHERS ; Humans are different in character, kinds, sizes, shapes , height, colour and have different destinies. This makes them different from others, they are unique in their own different ways, even identical twins have different characters that distinguishes one from the other . This is the reason why a man or woman shouldn't compare his or her partner with others, When they truly love each other, they should accept each other the way they are, both physicallyand otherwise. Comparison destroys relationships because it will make the partner who is being compared with someone else feel inferior and this can lead to depression and lots of problem in the relationship. LETTING YOUR HEART RULE YOUR HEAD ; A lot of persons in relationships Especially women let their hearts rule their heads, this means to act according to what your heart feel rather than what you think is sensible. A lot of women are ready to do anything for a man, they can spend their last kobo all because they love a man even when the man doesn't behave like someone who love them. Sometimes, family and friends try to caution them but they will not listen, when they eventually get hurt by these men, they will feel like the whole world is crumpling, because they let their hearts rule their heads, they didn't use their heads and the men has decided to use the heads for them. In order to avoid the above factors, people who enter relationships should know if any of these factor is part of them or that of their partner and work on it to avoid broken relationships.

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