RELATIONSHIP MATTERS

 The mistake most ladies make which has kept them single more than expected is because they are looking for the perfect man . Most ladies want men who has everything in life . Back then in school, I overheard some ladies describing the type of men they want to marry , I sat down immediately, trying to figure out this perfect man but couldn't find even one . Then I smiled and said " these ladies are not ready to get married. " These women have descriptions like these : He must be rich with fleet of cars , houses in different places,  he must take me out everyday, we must spend our weekends  Abroad, he must be gentle, he must satisfy me sexually, he must be tall and  very handsome, he must be muscular, he must be bearded, he must be very cute.  He must be dark or fair in complexion , he must never in his life raise his hands to beat me . He must be calm and outspoken, he must always make me smile . The list is endless.  When you see all these , you should kno...

 Domestic violence, abuse, cheating , and inattention in marriages has become so rampant in our today world. It is usually seen on the part of the men. No man In his right mind will marry a woman just to beat her, abuse and cheat on her . These couples once has happy and peaceful marriages, before the sudden change of the man's attitude,  This is why you usually hear these women from abusive marriages saying  " this was not the once peaceful, loving and caring man that I married ". Why don't we look at some reasons behind such change in attitude.  Sometime the man himself may be the reason,  sometimes friends and family of either the man or the woman maybe the reason.  But many at times , the woman herself maybe the reason.  Below are some of the reasons : *When a  woman  doesn't do   something for a living she will always depend on her husband for everything.  She sits at home, folding arms, crossing legs , watching movies, pr...