THE PERFECT MAN SYNDROME

 The mistake most ladies make which has kept them single more than expected is because they are looking for the perfect man .

Most ladies want men who has everything in life .

Back then in school, I overheard some ladies describing the type of men they want to marry , I sat down immediately, trying to figure out this perfect man but couldn't find even one .

Then I smiled and said " these ladies are not ready to get married. "

These women have descriptions like these :

He must be rich with fleet of cars , houses in different places,  he must take me out everyday, we must spend our weekends  Abroad, he must be gentle, he must satisfy me sexually, he must be tall and  very handsome, he must be muscular, he must be bearded, he must be very cute. 

He must be dark or fair in complexion , he must never in his life raise his hands to beat me .

He must be calm and outspoken, he must always make me smile .

The list is endless. 

When you see all these , you should know that there is no man who can have all these qualities. 

That is why when one out of the above listed is lacking in any man that approaches a woman with " the perfect man syndrome " she will quickly turn him down .

There is no perfect man on earth.

As a woman , have you asked yourself if you have one out of all these qualities listed above. 

You can't be asking for what you cannot give .

Once you are able to get atleast five good qualities out of ten from a man , my dear he is a good man , stop going about looking for a perfect man.

If you want a perfect man then why don't you take water and sand and create that perfect man for yourself.