REASONS WHY MEN GETS TURNED DOWN BY WOMEN

    A lot of men wonder why women turn

Some will feel they are not handsome

Or they are not rich enough ,

While others will feel it's a curse from their 

Enemies that they will never marry.

But the funniest thing is that these women 

Will end up  getting married to men who are

Less attractive than you and not as rich as 

You are  or people you feel are  more 

Than you.

Below are some of the reasons  why you as a 

Man gets turned down by women. 

1. PHYSICAL APPEARANCE 

This can be a reason why some men gets  

Turned down by women. 

The physical  appearance of a  man matters 

a lot,  even if you are very handsome, you 

Should learn how to dress well.

As a man, you should be able to take good 

Care of yourself, buy good clothes,  eat good 

And healthy foods, use good deodorants,  

Have a good hair cut, and  a well shaved beard.

Don't come and be looking like someone

who just came out of the prison and expect a

woman to accept your proposal. 

Your physical appearance as a man should

Be good and encouraging,  as a man you 

Should always have a good breath, because 

While you open your mouth to talk to a

woman and she perceives  a very bad 

Breath, she wouldn't want to have any 

Other conversation with you. 

And this is already an automatic turn down 

From the woman. 

2. FIRST IMPRESSION

The first impression a man gives to a

woman can also make a woman turn him 

Down, as a man, you can't just approach a 

And say "Hey, I love you  and I want to 

Marry you"

This is where a lot of men gets it wrong 

A lot of sensible women ,  will see you as an 

Immature man who is talking nonsense and

Will not think twice before walking away 

from you.

In order to have a good relationship,  you 

Have to start with making her your friend 

First ask her "Can we be friends,?" After a 

Very good pleasantry,  forgetting the fact that 

You are way more older than her, you can 

Still be the first to say "Good morning " or 

"Good afternoon " depending on the hour 

Of the the day.

This will impress her a lot and make her 

Give  you a listening ear, and you will be 

So surprised how she will willingly accept

To be your friend and gradually the 

Friendship will blossom into love

You won't know when she will fall 

Helplessly  in love with you. 

And when you finally tell her "I love you 

 And Will like to marry you " 

She will gladly accept your proposal. 

3. WHEN YOU ONLY  SEE HER AS A ROMANTIC PARTNER 

There is nothing worse than making a

Woman feel like she is simply another 

Notch in your bed post. 

If she already saw you hitting on other girls

And getting turned down , she already 

Perceived your desperation,  There is no 

Way she will accept your proposal. 

When you approach a woman, you need

To make her feel you are genuinely into her.

Therefore , if one interaction seems to yield 

Your results you after, keep it simple. 

Approach a woman and if nothing looks 

Promising after 20 minutes of conversation, 

Move on. 

Don't keep on hitting on her .

4. YOUR LIFESTYLE/CHARACTER 

This can be a reason why women keep 

Running away from you and never want to 

Give you a try,  A man's lifestyle can be 

Spending so recklessly,  spending money

On unimportant things,  the woman might 

Have seen you attending parties and 

Lavishing money on people. 

The woman wouldn't pray to have such 

Man as a husband. 

Maybe you are the womanizing type, the 

Type of man that follows  everything in skirt, 

You are always found with countless women

Of different sizes,  shapes, height and colour 

Going in and coming out of different hotels

In town,  she will have the notion that you 

are not a husband material or even if you 

are a husband material,  you will be a 

Cheating husband, she will even be scared 

of contacting  some sexually transmitted 

Diseases. 

You may not have the above mentioned,  but 

Your problem maybe drinking alcohol and 

Getting drunk, and falling inside gutters,  

And of a fact that she might have seen you 

In your drunk state one or two times and 

You will expect her to accept your proposal. 

What if you are a woman beater ,  she might 

have seen you beat a woman maybe your 

Sister or any of your family member that is 

A female,  or a neighbour,  without any 

Serious issue. 

She will conclude that you are going to be a 

Wife beater, and  she wouldn't pray for a 

Husband like you, and she will keep turning 

You down despite the numerous times  you

Approach her for a relationship. 

WAY OUT

The easy way out of some of these badly 

Reputed zone is to change your social circle,

That is the kind of people you move with 

Find new venues, dare to go out alone

and try new approaches. 

It's difficult to truly make a change . Shock 

These people in a positive way to show you 

Are not that flabby  man they thought you 

were, 

Stay away from alcohol for a while,

Stay away from women for a while ,

Try to control your temper so you can avoid 

Beating women.

Let  them see you are strong , you can 

Better yourself and you will prove to 

Everyone especially those women you 

Admire so much  that you have standards,  

Principles and virtues,  and that you are  

Able to pull yourself up from whatever  

Vicious circle you are in.

And get ready to celebrate because you are 

Going to eventually get that woman of your 

choice,  that woman you Admire so much 

Will one day be your wife.